How the Body Holds Grief — and the Power of Letting Go

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Most of us know what it feels like to carry stress in the body. A tight jaw. A stomach that twists into knots. Shoulders creeping up toward our ears. We stretch, we move, we push through. And yet—some things stay lodged deep within us. Because they’re not just physical.

This is especially true during periods of grief, loss, or emotional overwhelm. While we often talk about these experiences as mental or emotional, they deeply impact the body as well.

The Silent Weight of Grief in the Body

Whether loss comes suddenly or slowly, it doesn’t only affect the heart and mind. It changes how we breathe, how we sleep, how we move through the world.

The body begins to hold what we can’t always express. Emotions settle into the chest, gut, or nervous system—in places that words can’t easily reach.

This is where holistic bodywork becomes not just helpful, but essential.

Why Holistic Massage Therapy Matters

At Rebalance Massage in Amsterdam, massage therapy isn’t treated as a luxury. It’s a form of support for the body—especially during times of emotional stress, grief, or transition.

Through techniques like sports massage, trigger point therapy, and orthopedic rehabilitation, founder Sander Hoeksma brings a deep, intuitive understanding to every session. But it’s not just about physical technique.

What sets Rebalance apart is the ability to listen—not just to symptoms, but to the story underneath them.

This subtle, attuned approach was shaped early on by Sander’s time with a Māori healer, and has continued to evolve through years of practice and presence.

A Safe Space to Release and Reconnect

At Rebalance, you’re not expected to “fix” yourself. You’re simply invited to come back into your body, gently.

It’s a space where:

  • Your body is welcome exactly as it is
  • Slowing down is part of the process
  • Release doesn’t have to be forced
  • You’re met with care, not pressure
  • You receive skilled support, not assumptions

Whether you’re carrying old grief, recent stress, or just a quiet heaviness you can’t name—massage therapy at Rebalance offers a space to let go. In your own time. At your own pace.

Experience Holistic Massage in Amsterdam

Rebalance Massage is located in the heart of Amsterdam and offers holistic massage therapy tailored to the emotional and physical needs of each individual.

If you’re feeling the weight of something that won’t shift—or if you’re just ready to reconnect with yourself—Rebalance is here to support you. Book your session today and experience how your body can begin to let go.

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